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okay, so my friend likes to “borrow” my stuff, and sometimes if she sees something cute she’ll be like “ohh im stealin this” and im like “sure whatever” coz sometimes i would think she wouldnt. or she’d be like “oohh im wearin this!” and i really wish she’d stop. my clothes are tight and fit, i bought them like that coz i like them tight-ish on me. not tight tight, but like, clothes that hug my form. and then she just grabs anything she finds and tries it on before i can stop her. im not calling her fat, because she’s not, she’s just bigger than me, and when i wear my clothes again, they dont fit right on me anymore. she doesnt wear my pants though coz she says it doesnt go any higher than her knees, but she wears my skirts! i hate it coz i love my skirts, and when i wear it, it feels like theyre gunna fall off! i dont really mind her having to borrow some clothes if she NEEDS them, but what she does just bugs me. then she complains that my dresses are “skin tight” and then i feel like saying “why do u wear them then?” but i cant coz its hard for me to do that. also i have this shirt, it was from my aunt, i only wore it twice because it means so much to me because its from her, and she lives so far away, but she used to take care of me like her little sister, but then one time, my friend found this shirt and thought it was ‘cute’ so immediately she tried it on. i got mad because she’s two years older, and already got boobs and mine arent that full, so the chest area of that shirt looks weird on me now, plus when she wears the shirt, it looks tight on her, and im scared it might rip. it wasnt even from this country, so i cant just buy another one. then my shoes, me and her wear the same sizes (around 3-5) and just coz our foot is the same size, doesnt mean she can fit into any of my shoes. coz my feet is slighty smaller in width. and as i said, i like my stuff tight on me, so my shoes hug my feet. and i like it that way. and i wouldve wanted it to stay that way. but then she wears them coz she can “fit” into them.. but you see, she tries to fit in them, she MAKES it fit. urgghhh!!! it just frustrates me. i mean, i dont mind sharing a few things, but my clothes are my clothes, not something thats in display for my friends to try on anytime they feel like it. now i have this special jacket that i saved up for, and if she sees it, she’ll want to borrow it. and the last time she borrowed my hoodie, when she gave it back, it looked ruined, and there was a rip on one of the sleeves but i never said anything about it. please help me.. i just need to know the nicest ways to say no or something like that.. and sorry if this is too much.. i really dont know what to do.